Bullying!


Have you ever been bullied? Honestly, I've never been bullied. Physical bullying, verbal bullying or even cyber bullying. I'm glad enough for that. But it doesn't mean that I don't know how people feel when they're getting bullied. There are some of my friends whom ever get bullied. They talked to me, then tell me how it feels. Bullying often happen in teenage world, especially in school. Before I continue, we must know what bullying is exactly means. From wikipedia.com, bullying means " Bullying is a form of aggressive behavior manifested by the use of force or coercion to affect others, particularly when behavior is habitual and involves an imbalance of power. It can include verbal harassment, physical assault or coercion and may be directed repeatedly towards particular victims, perhaps on ground of race, religion, gender, sexuality, or ability. The 'imbalance of power' may be social power and/or physical power. The victim of bullying is sometimes referred to as a 'target' ". So, it means bullying doesn't only happen in school, but can be everywhere and not only for teenagers, but everyone. But now, I wanna discuss bullying that usually happens in school. The causes of bullying are various, but there must be the main reasons why bullying does exist. In boys world, bullying usually happen because domination and prestige problem. Mostly, boys always do the physical harassment like physical fighting. And girls, I don't know why here, in my country Indonesia, most of the bullying actors are girls. They usually bully because they envy to another girl because they may be think the girl is much prettier than them or have plenty of friends or the girl is very rich and fabulous and they don't like the girl and they try to look for a way to destroy the girl. I think, one of the main reason that keep bullying alive is feelings of envy. Feelings envy to another person is actually normal, that feeling can get us up to become better than that another person. But that becomes abnormal if we feel envy and we want to destroy the person whom we are feeling envy, come on, it's really not useful. Bullying is stupid things. And the bullying actors is stupid dolls! Stop being stupid and stop bullying. Bullying doesn't have any advantage for you. Bullying doesn't make money for you. Bullying doesn't make true happiness for you. So leave it now! It's the era of PEACE! let's love everyone ;))

"When people hurt you over and over, think of them like sand paper. They might scratch and hurt you a bit, but in the end, you end up polished and they end up useless."
- Chris Colfer 


"If you're horrible to me, I'm going to write song about it, and you won't like it. That's how I operate."
- Taylor Swift

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